Have you asked yourself these questions about men?

Why men quit being romantic?
Why commitment seems so difficult for men?
Why they don't seem to listen when you're speaking to them?
Why sex seems the only thing most men think about?
Why they seem so insensitive?
Or even why they won't talk about how they feel?
Why passion goes away?
Why good men are so hard to find?

Do you find yourself any or all of the above questions with your girlfriends and never really come up with answers? I can help you not only answer these questions but get to understand men in a way you never thought possible. What if I told you that all the above questions just come up because as women we have forgotten how to use our Feminine Elegance which is the key to understanding them? Women like Sarah from the Bible are an example of many women who grew up in the times when women were never taken seriously and yet they had such power and influence. How did they do that? The secrets I can teach you will help you unlock that knowledge again so you can use it to your advantage.
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The story of the 5 balls

I am sure you have heard the story of juggling five balls which I got from "Suzanne's diary for Nicholas" by James Patterson. They are called work, family, health, friends and integrity. Family, health, friends and integrity are made of glass but work is a rubber ball. We spend most of our lives going through formal education and training so that we're good enough to qualify for and be excellent at our jobs. Yet we devote very little time and attention to family, health, friends and integrity which I define as our relationships with ourselves and each other. Since these are made of glass maybe we need to put more work in making them healthier. It is our relationships that make us feel happy and fulfilled. Love is always about adding, increasing, growing and connecting. Dr. Dispenza says, and I agree with him, these days it is not enough just to know but it is time to know how. Let me show you how to have awesome relationships that help to make you feel fulfilled in life.
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Apologies my friends

I would like to thank all those who were reading my posts. I really appreciate your interest in my thoughts and ideas. I have been quiet because I decided to create a program that I am going to use for coaching all those of you who wish to go deeper with me. Anyway from now on I will be giving you tips on how to start making your relationships more fun and exciting. I will not be writing long articles but just giving hints and tips on the practical things you can start to do for yourself.

So today write down 5 things you just love about yourself. It might be how you cook good meals, play football with your kids or look after yourself. It should be personal and meaningful to you. See how great you feel after that exercise.

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How to avoid suffering by using your feminine energy

For some reason women believe that suffering is a good thing. Why else would we put up with it so much if we don't like it? For example a lot of women find themselves in dissatisfying relationships and instead of using their power to resolve issues they settle and put up with them. They treat themselves badly ensuring that they are the last to get anything good including personal time. In most cultures women eat the least nutritious food even though they are responsible for bearing children. How does this make sense? Dr. Phil said, "If you love your children take care of their mother." This is so true to me. The reason women are still at a disadvantage even now is because women bring up their sons not to value women. They don't teach them how to cook, clean and take care of their

environment. In doing that they are demonstrating to their sons that they have no responsibility at all to do those chores. Furthermore they are saying a woman's job is to be a servant to a man. I have been lucky enough to be married to a man who was trained by his own mother to do all house hold chores. When we began our life together he just took it as part of life to do jobs around the house. He never felt less of a man because of it. While men are out working women could and should train their boys how to be good human beings instead of defining them with their functions. We spend so much time with our children that our influence should be the one we pass on. That is why it is fundamental for human evolution and development that women be educated in all aspects of life because we are responsible for passing on human development to the next generation. While girls have been trained for generations to be strong, achieve more and be more masculine, sons are being left behind. This just creates incompatibility in sexes which causes more pain and suffering.

What is the effect of Feminine Energy?

Feminine energy is usually calm and serene. We value to be seen and to connect with people. 

                                     

On the other side boys for example,  usually make vroom vroom noises, and run and punch each other for no reason. Everything is about speed, noise and competition. Most of them love adventure and taking risks. In my experience girls who tend to lean towards that behaviour have had either a father or brothers who encouraged them to play with them that way as well.

I remember growing up, whenever there was discord usually caused by our arguments with our dad in our home all our mother had to do was enter a room and we all calmed down. That is the

How I learnt to receive love from a man

Growing up my dad trained us girls to be self reliant. He used to say, "I don't want you to need a man." So we learnt to fix the car with him, slaughter and skin a goat, fix the stove and iron when they broke down and we even put a concrete slab by ourselves just outside the kitchen door. Our mom was not feminine in the way I have discovered most women are. The only decorative thing on our wall was a mirror she got as a gift from a cousin. She dressed really well but she was also really not like most women. She wasn't fussily female at all. I was self dependent and I never thought there was anything I couldn't do for myself. Having said that dad made sure mom was always taken care of. Her shoes were polished by him or us. When she was on night shift being a nurse we knew never to make noise enough that would wake her up. We made sure even the people who passed by our house did so quietly.